@woozle I think we share similar sentiments.
Its why I think arguing logic talking points about "why trans women wouldn't actually be that disruptive to women's sports........etc" isn't productive.
Granted, arguing any points at all might not be productive, at least to republicans.
But a lot of these initiatives passed in blue states. I just don't think its helpful to try to reason within left leaning circles on "why" trans sports bans are/aren't needed. Because the root of the issue is right-wingers just don't see trans women as women and they want to hurt and oppress them to further an authoritarian regime. They don't and won't care about testosterone levels or the number of trans girls actually in sports.
The left leaning people who take it in good faith and try to argue specifics aren't helping anything, only validating the argument, and it's why these things are able to pass in areas that otherwise lean for trans rights. It also signals to trans girls that we don't believe them. That's my opinion, at least.