Sometimes I have a student who has to work much harder than their peers just to keep up with the mathematics. It could be that they have less experience with math, it could be that math is difficult for them, but it can be discouraging to work as hard or harder than everyone else and just get a C-
It can make you feel really small and not very smart. Even if objectively you know that isn't really true.
For those who have been that student what helped you to keep going?
@futurebird math is a good metaphor for effort. We're all neurodivergent in the house. My 16yo is like me, exceptional in reading comprehension, writing, art, science. But working with numbers is extremely difficult. We can do it, but we're slow and have to put in more effort than most. And that's a good thing! I tell her that no one is "bad" at something because it isn't easy for them. And just because something is easy or comes naturally, that doesn't make you "good" at it. All good things need the proper attention and practice. The application of mathematics is how we get to art and science, so having something that takes care and effort is so, so important. And so, when we're going over math problems, I always point out examples of real world application.