group chat between three people chelseajadexo have you ever had a weird sort of crush on one of your friends where you cant actually tell if its a crush or not??? do i want to kiss you?? do i just really enjoy being your friend????? who knows? not me thesaxymcclain Hi there I'm here to unnecessarily add that this is called alterous attraction! It's basically ambiguous attraction that's indistinguishable between platonic and romantic and/or sexual attraction. It's not uncommon to feel alterous attraction towards friends/squishes/crushes. This post describes it pretty well, actually. In my experience, it's like... I'd be cool with dating this person but being their friend is just as good. Like I wouldn't actively start a romantic relationship, but I wouldn't turn one down. So yeah! Alterous attraction. It's nice but confusing. viv13drainbow I DIDNT KNOW THERE WAS A WORD FOR IT.