I think part of the issue is the sheer carelessness. That's how you get such bad takes as code freedom over Human Rights.

As long as you just care about the code, all of the other harms just don't matter.

It's how you get to "he does good work".

I get folks are grieving, I get they don't see the issues. I get they are feeling personally attacked right now.

I'm tired.

I'm so tired and I want to put my limited spoons and work with folks who do care. Who are not careless.