I think my character arc in the trans community is realizing I don't care about gender. Gender will take care of itself. I care about what body I have to live and experience life with. And this ain't it.
Someone asked me the other day about my thoughts on masculinity and femininity and basically, just let people do whatever. If people are free to be themselves and love who they want to love, it will sort itself out.
It's oppressive social control trying to change us that's the problem.