I realise that I still haven't posted (or even written) the post about my day yesterday with my step-dad at the specialist and what it might mean for our lives. I think we both need more time for it to sink in.
I also want to express myself but not poorly.
I think I will say a few words...
Dementia symptoms --- Alzheimer's diagnosis
Me --- burnt out
Dad --- persuaded to give up driving, relief
Self, failing and inadequate.
Not sure what else to say. I will make a joined-up post about this on my website but right now I am struggling to process as I go.
@hamishtpb sorry to hear that but please never dismiss your considerable efforts to support your stepdad, including successfully getting him to be assessed and accepting giving up driving, both of which are huge achievements, as failing or inadequate
Under stress - barring sociopaths - we always focus on what we could’ve done differently or better but as you work your way through the new reality, don’t lose sight of the fantastic things you do do