It doesn't matter that you've had sex with them before.
It doesn't matter that they came back to your place.
It doesn't matter that they agreed to something else.
It doesn't matter how they are dressed.
It doesn't matter that they previously agreed to that specific thing.
It doesn't matter that you are in the midst of something consensual and they changed their mind.
It doesn't matter that their "no" isn't forceful or violent or accompanied by them leaving.
Clear, enthusiastic, ongoing consent is both sexy and vital.
I fear that there will be some *dreadful* takes on consent (elsewhere) following Brand's conviction.
@neil the Dispatches I just watched paints a, quite frankly, fucking awful picture of the man and the whole TV personality protection thing that seems endemic to productions.
When your producers are having serious discussions about not leaving women alone in someone's presence you have to wonder what the fuck is going on in their heads when they contract that someone.