@futurebird To be fully yourself, in a way that enables others¹ to be fully themselves. But you won't see that in terms of personal "success". You'll be doing it because it gives life to them and to you and is what matters.

It's an ideal, of course. Someone summed it up as "love your neighbour as yourself" and ultimately got killed for it. Someone who also had things to say about the dangers of making money into a religion.
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¹ not restricted to human others.

@futurebird I don't even think that religious leaders want to "create a religion". They want to spread some ideas, a worldview, some sort of wisdom and it then (sometimes) becomes a religion.

@futurebird to not be sam altman. looks like it sucks.

@futurebird Leave the world in a better state than the one you were born into. Sam is such a miserable failure..

@futurebird Throw a lasso around a Dunbar's Number of people. If all their needs are satisfiable solely by the efforts of those inside, that is a successful community. A successful person is one such that when included in a large random sampling of arbitrary communities, those communities are more than 50% likely to be successful. Note that trade potential and labor synergy makes this not a zero-sum game. *Everyone* could be "successful".

@futurebird “But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.” George Eliot, Middlemarch

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What an interesting question! I think my first draft would be: to find a way to contribute meaningfully to the world which aligns with your values and abilities, to not give up on trying to support and/or love other people, and to be open to learning and improving when you realise you've done something harmful.
But maybe success is a little like pride for me: I don't think it quite makes sense to me, the way it seems to for other people.

@futurebird Pretty illuminating about his state of mind 🙄

@futurebird To connect with other people and nature. To have the possibility to love and be loved.
And to wipe such death-cult psychopaths from planet Earth. Perhaps by installing a crowdfunding to shoot all these guys to Mars, quite soon. With an Elon-rocket, because the possibility of an explosion is statistically the highest. Then solving the problems on Earth with their money.

@futurebird To find your place in a network of real love and mutual support. To live your life such that many more people mourn your death than celebrate it.

@futurebird Someone who finds joy in the small things and is relentless in their pursuit for everyone to find the same (which means uplifting the majority of humanity while also humbling quite a few others).

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well, it sure don't mean to read 1984 & decide that the best use of one's one & only life is to force others to believe or least pretend to believe that 2+2 = 5, which at the end of the day is what creating a religion is

for me i would say success means to develop the ability to appreciate & even in one's own way to add to the beauty of the world while leaving space free space for discovery & delight but i guess he'd consider that kind of thing downright sus since it might lead to art or even (horrors) science

@futurebird wtf.
Success = being yourself without harming yourself or others. Which is always an ongoing process

To me? Success is to learn how nature and the world works, to understand, share and apply ideas that even when scrutinized by your peers hold together well enough that someday someone might reach back to learn from what you said, or emulate what you have done because it was so effective, and through that effectiveness proved its inherent worth.

If your name isn't forgotten in this process then you have also become famous for better or worse.

@futurebird You are loved without hesitation or reservation. That's the only real wealth we can find.