okay it looks like my at-home server is constantly sending around 40Mbps to my linode over tailscale, and I'm having trouble figuring out where the traffic is coming from. iptraf and iftop tell me that the data transfer is happening but can't tell me which processes are involved.
Anyone have any ideas?
I need to look into using `tailscale serve` instead of fronting everything on nginx on linode but I'm not sure how to set that up becasue as always DOCS FUCKING SUCK