I've spent some of the afternoon on a zoom call with a bunch of friends in the US.
And what I noticed, rather eerily, is that a lot of them have that hazy look that one sees on recently released hostages.
I hadn't realised just how much my friends had been metaphorically holding their breath for years. I didn't realise how the stress of daily reports of iniquity had created almost unbearable stress for them.
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So, I want to apologise to all my US friends on here if I was too stupid to understand that you were, essentially, hostages.
It takes a time to absorb a new reality. When people get used to living under a thundercloud of fear and impending disaster for years, they develop coping mechanisms that work well for that environment, but not as well for the time when there is respite.
So please give yourselves time. And be kind to yourselves. There is lots to do, but for a few days just breathe.