When you register to vote in Oregon (and most other states) your name and address are made public. ANY ABUSER CAN LOOK UP YOUR ADDRESS.
Worse, each time you engage with the DMV or a few other systems, you're automatically registered to vote. Even if you opt-out they will repeatedly add you back in.
You may be shocked that the voter-registration system is an obvious murder machine. And you may assume *SURELY* they have some sort of anonymity checkbox...
You have to plead your case to a random official with documented paperwork proving restraining orders etc:
https://oregon.public.law/rules/oar_165-005-0130
OAR 165-005-0130 – Residence Address Disclosure Exemption